RIES' FAV


"If you outgrew me, if you wanted something more. I would understand that. I promised I wouldn’t stand in your way if you wanted to leave me."

"He was not my Prince Charming and my life had fallen short of being a fairy tale. But after thinking through fairy tales are so predictable and mandane. Life is much more exciting."

"其实说再多,也不过是用一百种方式说,我爱你."

"When you take away love, earth becomes a tomb"

"生命里有太多时候 要接受不能接受的事"

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

I hate uncertainty

Why relationships are complicated, confusing, and full of uncertainty?

I hate uncertainty. I need to know if it will last, if it will be good, what to do next, and what to expect... Simply hate this feeling...

My insecurities are forming through uncertainties... I know and understand that the future will reveal itself in its own time. But sometimes I just can't help it.

Read an article on dealing with uncertainty it says that the necessary skills for dealing with uncertainty are patience, living in the moment, slow-motion small decisions, not being attached to any particular outcome, gradually revealing your true feelings, and finding plenty of other distractions to keep your mind off the problem.

I will try to work on it but I'm not sure if I will be successful. well at least now I got exams to keep me distracted...


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